Why Trying To Be Good- Destroys You
Why trying to be good destroys you is a very powerful and contradictory statement.
Because trying to do anything, trying to will your way in and have that thing that you so very much desire is a hoax that everybody is telling these days. I mean, think about it, really think about how many times you have tried to do something and it just came out wrong.
You focused on it, you put in the work, you wished it into being as so many gurus tell you today, and nothing happened, or worse and more probable outcome was that the obverse happened and you didn’t get it.
And now think about the times where you didn’t care, and you let it happen, and somehow, it’s the same thing that just happened, and it was everything you wanted. You got it, and you didn’t even strain yourself. So, it’s in this way, you see… Trying to do something will just stop you from getting it.
Because you just have to have that thing, as Alan Watts used to say. And if you really think about it long enough, you realise this is true. And you can recall so many instances where this has happened.
And this is so with trying to be a good person. Trying like this will only cause you misery and have it go all upside down for you. Trying to be a good person will bring about the obverse, which is doing bad things and thinking you are good. Or as a client of mine used to say when he was drunk and truthful for a moment… ‘’Being good is hard, it is sooo hard!’’ And indeed, it is because you are not truthful to yourself, you are not just being, you are forcing something that should just come naturally.
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